You may be wondering "What does being single have to do with being in a relationship"? Well, I'm glad you asked! Being single is probably one of the most important periods of your life because how you spend your time being single can have a huge impact on your future relationships! If you spend your time pursuing unconfirmed relationships and worldly things, you may wind up with many scars and into situations you may regret later which could carry into your future relationships; this is commonly known as "baggage". If you keep giving people who are not meant for you pieces of your heart, you are only going to have scraps left to give your future spouse! If you spend your time pursuing God and trusting that he truly does desire the best for you, He can bless you with a love that will stand the test of time! For those of you who are single, I encourage you to spend some time studying 1 Corinthians 7. Paul gives great advice on pre-marriage relationships and marriage throughout the entire chapter. One passage in particular I am refering to is verses 17-24 where Paul mentions being content in your current situation. You see, it is so easy to get frustrated at the "single" label, but remember no matter what situation you are in, you have an opportunity to serve God and your community! “The Spirit of the LORD is upon me, for he has anointed me to bring Good News to the poor. He has sent me to proclaim that captives will be released, that the blind will see, that the oppressed will be set free" (Luke 4:18 NLT). Don't forget we Christians have a very important job to do (evangelize AKA save lives!). Don't be upset that you are single! Use this time to grow as a person and in your beliefs! Find out things about yourself such as what your interests are, who your real friends are, what makes you unique, what you believe with all your heart, things you are not willing to give up once you do enter into a relationship, what you want out of life, etc.
One thing that I can't help but find comical is when people say things like "there is no such thing as a perfect person for you because no one is perfect!" Well, they may be right about "no one is perfect", but I believe that is the equivalence of saying "God, you are able to create the universe, move any mountain, calm any storm, heal any disease, but make the perfect spouse... geee... I don't know God... that's just impossible". What!?!? Jesus even said “What do you mean, ‘If I can’?” Jesus asked. “Anything is possible if a person believes.” (Mark 9:23 NLT) This is the same God that we proclaim "For nothing will be impossible with God.” (Luke 1:37 ESV) NOTHING!!!! Not even a perfect spouse!!! I believe that when God created you, He saw YOU, His son/daughter and thought, "I love this child, MY child, so much, not only will I sacrifice my one and only son for them, I am going to go before them and plan the BEST life possible for them, so that they may know who I am and have a relationship with me!" That perfect someone is out there for you, but you have to choose God's will and be patient enough to wait for them to come at the right time! Don't let the enemy use doubt to rob you of what is rightfully yours!!! Personally, being single has kept me from the distractions of being in a relationship so that I may discover more about myself and my God. Even though you may feel lonely or like no one likes you, trust in God's perfect timing and know He does have great things planned for you! Stay Strong!
Each of you, dear brothers and sisters, should remain as you were when God first called you. (1 Corinthians 7:24 NLT)
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